It’s easy to get used to things at work and not even realise something’s off. One day rolls into the next, and before you know it, you’re putting up with stuff that’s way below the mark. So how do you know if what you’re dealing with is normal or if you’re being taken for a ride?

Here’s what to look out for.
You feel respected
This might sound simple, but it’s a big one. Do you feel like your work is valued? Are your ideas listened to? Or are you constantly being overlooked and dismissed? Respect at work shows up in loads of little ways — being asked for input, being thanked for your efforts, or just being spoken to like a human rather than a cog in the machine. If you’re always bending over backwards while management barely notices, that’s not a great sign. You should never feel like your only purpose is to make someone else’s job easier. You’re allowed to expect respect and appreciation.
You’re physically and mentally safe
Every workplace has its challenges, but you should never feel unsafe. That goes for physical safety and your mental wellbeing. If you’re in an environment where things are constantly being rushed, safety corners are being cut, or people are getting hurt and nothing changes, something’s seriously wrong. And this isn’t just about hard hats and fire drills. If you’re made to feel anxious, picked on, or pressured into doing things that make you uncomfortable, that’s not okay either. In more serious cases, you might even need to look into work injury compensation if something’s happened to you as a result of poor workplace practices. No one wants to go down that road, but if it comes to it, know that support is out there.
You’re not scared to speak up
You should be able to raise concerns without worrying it’ll be held against you. If speaking up at your job leads to awkward silences, eye rolls or even threats, that’s a red flag. A good boss will want to hear your feedback — even if it’s not all sunshine and rainbows. On the flip side, if you’re in a place where your opinions are welcomed and changes actually happen as a result, that’s a great sign that you’re being treated right.
The pay matches the effort
Let’s be honest, we all work to get paid. If you’re constantly working overtime, covering for people, or doing jobs outside your role without any kind of recognition or pay bump, it’s not fair. Don’t let people guilt-trip you into thinking that “everyone’s in the same boat” or that “you should just be grateful to have a job.” That’s outdated nonsense. You deserve to be paid fairly for what you do. And if you’re unsure, do a quick search to see what others in your role are getting elsewhere. You might be surprised.
You don’t dread Mondays
Nobody leaps out of bed buzzing for Monday morning — but there’s a difference between that and feeling full-on dread every Sunday night. If your job is draining the life out of you and leaving you stressed, anxious or miserable, that’s not something to just put up with.
Work takes up too much of your life to be stuck in a place that treats you badly. You deserve better — and it’s okay to want that.
